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2013年9月1日 星期日
2013年8月21日 星期三
Thailand's Attraction: Tolerance
Tolerance, the Thais have learned, is good for
business.
In recent marketing campaigns, the government
here in "the land of smiles" has actively sought categories of tourists that for
reasons of political sensitivity or outright discrimination are shunned in some
neighboring countries.
It is the only Asian country, travel industry
analysts say, that has a government-sponsored campaign - "Go Thai. Be Free." -
aimed at gay and lesbian travelers.
Thailand, which is overwhelmingly Buddhist, is
also marketing itself to Muslims as a place where food prepared according to
Islamic precepts is readily available and where "halal spas" offer separate
facilities for women and men. Leading shopping malls have Muslim prayer rooms -
a far cry from the anti-Muslim feelings in neighboring Myanmar.
Such inclusiveness pays: tourist arrivals have
surged in recent years, notably from many predominantly Muslim countries, and
the 22 million visitors last year were double the level of a decade ago. Tourism
earned the country more than $31 billion last year, the government said.
"I can't think of a market that we wouldn't
welcome," said Wisoot Buachoom, the director of the Tourism Authority of
Thailand's office in the northern city of Chiang Mai
Thailand's campaigns might not raise eyebrows in
the West. But among its immediate neighbors, laws against homosexuality and
religious or ethnic hostilities keep some tourists away.
Malaysia and Indonesia, both Muslim-majority
countries, bar Israelis from visiting for political reasons. Thailand, by
contrast, has long been one of the most popular destinations for Israeli
travelers, with 120,000 Israelis visiting Thailand in 2012.
Among Thailand's Southeast Asian neighbors -
Brunei, Malaysia, Myanmar and Singapore - some or all forms of sexual contact
between men are illegal, although the laws are loosely or selectively
enforced.
Thailand's gay and lesbian campaign began two
years ago from the Thai tourism promotion office in New York, featuring the
slogan, "Go for the freedom."
"We go after the affluent gay traveler," said
Steve Johnson, who oversees the Thai government's gay and lesbian campaign from
New York.
At a bar in Silom, a district of Bangkok that is
popular with gay men, Alex Cross, an Australian gay traveler who came to
Thailand with his partner, said he enjoyed visiting Thailand because "I feel
there is no judgment here."
"We've been to countries where it's illegal to
be gay," Mr. Cross said. But in Thailand it is common to see gay couples, local
and foreign, holding hands in shopping malls and other public places. "Here we
can express ourselves," he said.
A short drive away, at a mosque near the banks
of the Chao Phraya River, Huzam Kalam, a Muslim flight attendant from Sri Lanka
who was on his third visit to Bangkok, expressed a similar sentiment. "I don't
feel like I'm out of place here," he said.
Thailand's efforts stand in contrast with
anti-Muslim sentiments in Myanmar, where Buddhist mobs have killed scores of
Muslims over the past year.
Thailand has also struggled with violence
between Muslims and Buddhists. But Fazal Bahardeen, who rates destinations for
convenience and friendliness to Muslims, says Thailand has convinced outsiders
that the attacks are small and isolated.
The company ranks Thailand as the third-best
"halal-friendly holiday destination" of countries outside the Organization of
Islamic Cooperation. The survey is based on the availability of halal food,
prayer facilities and other manifestations of sensitivity to Muslim needs.
(Singapore, which has a sizable Muslim minority, was the top-rated destination,
followed by Bosnia.)
Thais are "inherently hospitable people," Mr.
Bahardeen said.
"I keep telling tourist organizations: it's
Marketing 101," he said. "You're spending your own money," he said of foreign
travelers. "Why would you want to go to a place that doesn't welcome you?"
MaorEngel, of the Bangkok Tourist Center where
about 90 percent of clients are Israeli, said: "In other countries, they will
ask you where are you from and why are you here or your sexual orientation. Here
they don't care." He added, "You just come here with money, that's it."
FROM:http://www.china.org.cn/travel/2013-08/21/content_29783976.htm
2013年8月13日 星期二
Polar Thaw Opens Shortcut for Russian Natural Gas
A Shortcut for Russian Natural Gas
YURKHAROVSKOYE GAS FIELD, Russia — The polar ice cap
is melting, and if executives at the Russian energy company Novatek feel guilty
about profiting from that, they do not let it be known in public.
From this windswept shore on the Arctic Ocean, where
Novatek owns enormous natural gas deposits, a stretch of thousands of miles of
ice-free water leads to China. The company intends to ship the gas directly
there.
“If we don’t sell them the fuel, somebody else will,”
Mikhail Lozovoi, a spokesman for Novatek, said last month with a shrug.
Novatek, in partnership with the French energy company
Total and the China National Petroleum Corporation, is building a $20 billion
liquefied natural gas plant on the central Arctic coast of Russia. It is one of
the first major energy projects to take advantage of the summer thawing of the
Arctic caused by global warming.
The plant, called Yamal LNG, would send gas to Asia
along the sea lanes known as the Northeast Passage, which opened for regular
international shipping only four years ago.
Whatever blame for the grim environmental consequences
of global warming elsewhere in the world that might be placed on the petroleum
industry, in the Far North, companies like Novatek and Total, Exxon Mobil of the
United States and Statoil of Norway stand to make profit.
“It’s a reality of what is available today, and
commercially it is a route that cuts cost,” Emily Stromquist, a global energy
analyst at the Eurasia Group, said in a telephone interview.
Because of easing ice conditions and new hull designs,
the tankers will not even require nuclear-powered icebreakers to lead the way —
as is the practice now — except through the most northerly straits.
Novatek’s alternative was extending the natural gas
pipeline that goes to Europe over hundreds of miles of tundra, at great cost.
While shipping the gas from the field on the Yamal Peninsula, one of the long,
misshapen fingers of land that extend north of the Urals in Russia, remains
expensive, it is relatively cheap to drill and produce from these rich fields,
making the overall project competitive.
In addition to making it easier to ship to Asia, the
receding ice cap has opened more of the sea floor to exploration. This has
upended the traditional business model of using pipelines to Europe. Thawing has
proceeded more slowly in the Arctic above Alaska, Canada and Greenland, but one
day what is happening in Russia could happen there.
Still, the Arctic waters are particularly perilous for
drilling because of the extreme cold. Tongues of ice that descend from the polar
cap for hundreds of miles obstruct shipping and threaten rigs. After a rig ran
aground last year, Shell canceled drilling this summer in the Chukchi Sea off
Alaska.
This is not the first Arctic venture to benefit from
newly cleared sea lanes. The decision to open the Arctic Ocean to drilling
passed Russia’s Parliament in 2008 as an amendment to a law on subsoil
resources. Exxon and Rosneft, the Russian state oil company, are already in a
joint venture to drill in the Kara Sea, and last month they agreed to expand to
seven new exploration blocks in the Arctic. Fourteen wells are planned.
With these ventures, Exxon has placed itself in the
vanguard of oil companies exploring commercial opportunities in the newly
ice-free waters.
In Russia, the mining company Norilsk can now ship its
nickel and copper across the Arctic Ocean without chartering icebreakers, saving
millions of rubles for shareholders.
Norway is also drilling deep in Arctic waters, but has
less territory to explore. Tschudi, a Norwegian shipping company, has bought and
revived an idled iron ore mine in the north of Norway to ship ore to China via
the northern route.
In northwest Alaska, the Red Dog lead and zinc mine
moves its ore through the Bering Strait, which is less often clogged with packed
ice than in past decades.
What is new in the Novatek project is an oil industry
business plan that relies explicitly on the Northeast Passage. Though Russian
ships have moved goods along the country’s sprawling Arctic coastline for more
than a century, and the route was opened to international shipping in 1991, it
became apparent only recently that climate change would make the trip
profitable.
The German shipping company Beluga made the first
international commercial transit in 2009. The first transshipment with fuel, a
cargo of gas condensate bound for China, crossed in 2010. By last summer, just
three years after the first passage, 50 ships crossed above Russia, including
eight tankers chartered by Novatek to test the route.
Novatek has said it needs bank guarantees for $16
billion in project financing, while it and its partners will finance the rest.
To secure these loans, the company needs a change in Russian law lifting
Gazprom’s monopoly for exports.
President Vladimir V. Putin, in a speech at an
economic conference on June 21, said the law would change before this year was
out, signaling that Yamal LNG had full Kremlin backing.
If Russia can ship large volumes of gas to Asia, it
could send ripples through the Asian markets and put a damper on plans to build
liquefied natural gas export terminals in the Gulf of Mexico. The United States
and Russia are the world’s two leading gas producers.
Novatek has been experimenting with commercial models
to complement the new shipping route. To fulfill contracts in the winter, when
the northern route is more hazardous, the company can ship gas west over
northern Russia, then around Europe, through the Suez Canal, and onward to Asia.
It has also negotiated with Qatar, a major Middle
Eastern natural gas exporter, for a swap arrangement to save tanker fuel and
time: Qatar would fulfill Novatek’s Asian contracts during the winter while
Novatek, in exchange, would fill Qatar’s contracts to European customers during
those months.
The company intends to open the Arctic plant by 2016.
It has already asked for bids for two ice-hardened tankers, which should be able
to navigate the sea lanes toward China seven months a year and the routes to the
west year round.
It says it has mastered building in the Far North
where, counterintuitively, Russians labor mainly through the cold polar night in
winter, when the tundra is more accessible to heavy equipment.
The company, Mr. Lozovoi said, is keeping an eye on
climate studies of the Arctic.
He said that because of engineering tolerances built
into the ship designs, “even if the climate turns toward cooling, and the ice
thickens, we will make money.”
FROM:http://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/25/business/energy-environment/polar-thaw-opens-shortcut-for-russian-natural-gas.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
愛情難題/相愛十年,新娘不是我_聯合報╱薛豹(台北市).....現在我很清楚,沒有他和他的謊言,才是最好的生活....
那天在整理要送洗的衣服時,在男友的外套口袋裡,意外地發現了一張收據──來自當地最大的婚紗公司。我愣了愣,隨即又驚又喜!我想,我就要當六月新娘了!
跟男友是大學班對,相戀至今,早已超過十個年頭。當他因為工作需要,外派到日本時,我也毅然辭掉手邊的工作,天涯海角的愛相隨。公司租了一間約莫十來坪的公寓給他,雖然不大,也夠撐起我們幸福的兩人世界。
在這個陌生的城市,語言不通又無親無故的我,就像他養在籠裡的小鳥,白天去上語言學校,晚上則盼著他趕快結束應酬,能在睡前陪我說幾句話。
共同生活兩年,老媽三不五時地在越洋電話裡催婚,但男友卻遲遲不行動,我也莫可奈何。給老媽逼急了,我幾度追問他對未來的規畫,他總是說,他還想再打拚幾年,給我更好的生活。而如今藏在口袋裡的這張收據,是不是代表他已經作好結婚的準備?
懷抱著這樣的期待,我每天都在等他開口求婚,不料半個月過去了,我什麼也沒等到。
不想再這樣耗下去,我選了一個他難得在家的夜晚,單刀直入的問他。他的表情瞬間凝結,隨即是一片的沉默。當他再度開口時,他跪了下來,不是浪漫的單膝著地,是一個著著實實的下跪。
他囁嚅著說對不起,說他不能娶我,說有另一個女孩,肚裡已經有了他的孩子,說這一切都是意外,說孩子是無辜的,說我這麼善良,一定不會願意讓另一個女孩墮胎。他說了很多很多,我的腦海一片空白,我麻木地收了一個隨身小包,帶上我的護照,頭也不回的離開那裡。
在飯店裡,我訂了第二天最早的班機,回到家人身邊。後來輾轉聽說他娶的是某知名企業的社長千金,並因此得以進入家族企業任職,換了豪宅名車,過起駙馬爺的優渥生活。
如今這些都與我無關了,他對我已經不再具有任何影響力。當年苦等他給我更好的生活,現在我很清楚,沒有他和他的謊言,才是最好的生活。
2013年8月7日 星期三
蔡琴 - 再愛我一次
蔡琴 - 再愛我一次
偶然吧 還是奇蹟 引你翩翩走進我生命
用那沾滿濃情的愛筆 揮灑永不褪色的詩句
珍藏這份美好的回憶 等你到夢裡
再愛我一次 再愛我一次
FROM:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DEvSJ0aMqh
2013年7月21日 星期日
我的心裡只有妳......「生命是短暫、是詭變、是未知、是無法如願,唯有保握當下保握真情保握幸福,或許在生命盡時回頭留下是甜蜜回憶而不是傷心遺憾!」
夢想行動家/我的心裡只有妳_聯合報╱張光斗
要延長生命,也許要面對心臟移植的抉擇。也就在那個當下,
老姊第一次正視C君對她的真情……
我有一個乾姊,奇人。
她不會英文,不會開車,遠在五○年代就隻身跑到紐約。
她不但陸陸續續把母親弟弟妹妹弟媳弟妹丈夫兒女……全都拉拔到了美國,最夯的時候,在紐約的唐人街擁有七、八家製衣廠。
她一生傳奇,我老笑著說,要把她的故事拍成連續劇。
她只有初中畢業
到美國打出天下
她姓陳,名字就暫時不提,否則一定會被她追在後面念上二十年……
她排行老大,初中畢業就去當公路局小姐,也就是隨車的剪票員。她很有辦法,居然在每天上班的路上找到從小就被送給人家扶養的小弟弟。
沒過多久,母親下令,要把她嫁給一位退伍軍人。理由?很簡單,弟弟妹妹很多,靠她拿回來的聘金可以充當生活費,幫弟弟妹妹繳學費。而她,在反抗無效後,居然「慷慨赴義」了。
我後來笑她笨,「為什麼不逃跑?」她說:「跑?跑到哪裡去?」跑了後弟弟妹妹怎麼辦?她媽媽拿了人家的錢,是絕對不會吐回去的。
她在眷村裡,有個青梅竹馬一同長大的玩伴C君。可惜,對方的父親官位高,她的父親沒地位,所以,男方的母親堅決反對他們來往。
婚後,她才發現丈夫有暴力傾向,但是又能怎麼辦,一兒一女很快就來報到了啊!我消遣她,以她那種愛恨分明的極端個性,要想討到丈夫的歡心也是件困難到底的事。
C君於此時考上台北的大學,只要一沒課,就到她家幫她帶孩子,掃地擦桌。她老是沒好氣地要C君少來,C君卻不為所動。
她在偶然的機會下,找到前往美國的路子。她心裡明白,如果要讓C君死心,還要改變眼前沒有希望的生活,唯一的路就是離開台灣,轉到遍地黃金的美國打天下。
人生就是這麼一回事。時過境遷,物換星移,時光終究具有魔力,可以改變任何一個人的命運,更何況是她和C君。
C君畢業後,成家,生子,與一般人一樣。而她,在紐約事業有成,與丈夫離婚,讓弟弟妹妹都有了安定的生活……一轉眼,兩人都過了中年。
C君過得很鬱悶,身體也開始出問題,心臟是最大的隱憂。他與妻子的感情逐漸產生嫌隙,兩人爭吵不斷,愈走愈遠。
曾經趁著出差的機會,C君跑到紐約去探視我那老姊,不過,老姊沒給他好臉色,匆匆跟他吃頓飯就藉故趕走他了!回到台灣的C君更難受,總覺得生命太無趣,人生太悲苦,他時時刻刻都有窒息的錯覺。
眼看兒子逐漸長大成人,C君自認責任已了,決定自工作崗位退休,然後,跟妻子分居。這時,他買了張機票,飛去紐約。
一段崎嶇的感情
一趟紐約行復燃
這趟紐約行,C君發病了。老姊在醫院裡知道C君的心臟問題極嚴重,若要延長生命,也許要面對心臟移植的抉擇。也就在那個當下,老姊第一次正視C君對她的真情,連老姊的一對兒女都反過來勸她,難道還想繼續蹉跎C君對她的一片真心?老姊全家人幾乎都動員了起來,贊成老姊把握住C君的一往情深,千千萬萬不要再後悔了。
C君回台之後,在我的公司落腳,他成了我非常重要的左右手。不過,我隱約感覺到一些奇妙的電流在他周圍流動,因為每天中午,他不跟我們吃中飯,有人每天為他送熱騰騰的便當過來,他總是躲著我們外出吃飯。
原來,C君不好意思跟我透露這一段坎坷崎嶇的感情。直到某一天,老姊忍不住了,親自上樓來,進了我們辦公室,她見到我的第一句話竟然是:「我不知道你會用什麼眼光來看我?」我直覺回她道:「妳是我好友的朋友,當然也是我的朋友!」老姊後來跟我說,她本來擔心我看不起她,沒想到我願意做她的朋友,當場,她告訴自己,她要跟我做一輩子的好朋友。
我就在這種機緣下,第一次見到了她——我的乾姊,也就是我口中的老姊。
老姊紐約的公司完全交給弟弟掌管,後來出了些事,她必須回一趟紐約。這是她倆重新在一起後的第一次分離。當然,C君也與前妻完成了離婚手續。就在老姊啟程前,他們提到了結婚的事,C君希望趕緊結,老姊卻說C君台灣的朋友太多,不好驚擾大家,還是等C君身體好些後,再到紐約結。
跑了這趟紐約後,才到台北,就接到醫院通知說有一個適合C君的心臟出現,移植與否必須立刻決定。C君猶豫了,他擔心移植手術具有高風險,但老姊鼓勵他,機會難得,下次不知何時才等得到……
於是,C君點頭同意。
無奈,C君再也沒醒過來,
他的移植手術失敗了。
老姊在醫院瘋了似地,她怨自己,恨自己,她崩潰了。美國的弟弟妹妹與兒女都連夜趕回台灣,老姊無法面對此一事實……
C君火化前,老姊在兒女的攙扶下,面對著C君許下了承諾:下一世,一定要再續此生沒有結果的姻緣,下一世,兩人一定要結髮成對,攜手到老……
我失去了好友C君,卻因為他而賺到了一個老姊!老姊每周一定自紐約打兩三通電話給家母,以及吾家的所有家人,噓寒問暖,面面俱到。我每回或公或私前往紐約,最終一定會在機場上演一齣好戲:她極力要塞一個紅包給我,我又奮力推拒。有時讓旁觀的老外都忍俊不禁,哈哈大笑。
我不知自己下一世是否還能為人?如果可以,希望我還能當C君與老姊的親友,得以看著他們牽著手,緩緩步入結婚禮堂……
FROM: 2013年4月25日 星期四
WHO says new bird strain is "one of most lethal" flu viruses
A new bird flu strain that has killed 22 people in China is "one of the most lethal" of its kind and transmits more easily to humans than another strain that has killed hundreds since 2003, a World Health Organization (WHO) expert said on Wednesday.
The H7N9 flu has infected 108 people in China since it was first detected in March, according to the Geneva-based WHO.
Although it is not clear exactly how people are being infected, experts say they see no evidence so far of the most worrisome scenario - sustained transmission between people.
An international team of scientists led by the WHO and the Chinese government conducted a five-day investigation in China, but said they were no closer to determining whether the virus might become transmissible between people.
"The situation remains complex and difficult and evolving," said Keiji Fukuda, the WHO's assistant director-general for health security.
"When we look at influenza viruses, this is an unusually dangerous virus for humans," he said at a briefing.
Another bird flu strain - H5N1 - has killed 30 of the 45 people it infected in China between 2003 and 2013, and although the H7N9 strain in the current outbreak has a lower fatality rate to date, Fukuda said: "This is definitely one of the most lethal influenza viruses that we've seen so far."
Scientists who have analyzed genetic sequence data from samples from three H7N9 victims say the strain is a so-called "triple reassortant" virus with a mixture of genes from three other flu strains found in birds in Asia.
Recent pandemic viruses, including the H1N1 "swine flu" of 2009/2010, have been mixtures of mammal and bird flu - hybrids that are more likely to be milder because mammalian flu tends to make people less severely ill than bird flu.
Pure bird flu strains, such as the new H7N9 strain and the H5N1 flu, which has killed about 371 of 622 the people it has infected since 2003, are generally more deadly for people.
UNSETTLING
The team of experts, who began their investigation in China last week, said one problem in tracking H7N9 is the absence of visible illness in poultry.
Fukuda stressed that the team is still at the beginning of its investigation, and said that "we may just be seeing the most serious infections" at this point.
Based on the evidence, "this virus is more easily transmissible from poultry to humans than H5N1", he said.
Besides the initial cases of H7N9 in and around Shanghai, others have been detected in Beijing and five provinces. On Wednesday, Taiwan's Health Department said a businessman had contracted H7N9 while travelling in China and was in a serious condition in hospital.
Samples from chickens, ducks and pigeons from poultry markets have tested positive for H7N9, but those from migratory birds have not, suggesting that "the likely source of infection is poultry", said Nancy Cox, director of the influenza division at the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
John Oxford, a flu virologist at Queen Mary University of London, said the emergence of human H7N9 infections - a completely new strain in people - was "very, very unsettling".
"This virus seems to have been quietly spreading in chickens without anyone knowing about it," he told Reuters in London.
Flu experts say it is likely that more cases of human infection with H7N9 flu will emerge in the coming weeks and months, at least until the source of infection has been completely confirmed and effectively controlled.
Anne Kelso, the Melbourne-based director of the WHO Collaborating Centre for Reference and Research on Influenza said there has been a "dramatic slowdown of cases" in the commercial capital of Shanghai, which has recorded most of the deaths, something she described as "encouraging".
After Shanghai closed down its live poultry markets in early April, there was an almost immediate decline in new H7N9 cases, she said. "The evidence suggests that the closing of the live poultry markets was an effective way to reduce the risks."
Even so, the WHO's China representative, Michael O'Leary, issued figures last week showing that half of the patients analyzed had no known contact with poultry.
FROM:http://www.reuters.com/article/2013/04/24/us-birdflu-china-idUSBRE93L0EF20130424
2013年1月27日 星期日
「痛起來,用手重捶也好不了」...陽光男痛苦吞腹內 賠上一家人
看到這一則新聞,現在的我正為疼痛所苦,所以感同身受,我真心為其哀悼...默哀...
曾姓一家四口疑因過不了年關,選擇共赴黃泉,讓人唏噓。昨晚警方在曾家翻到長子曾建福存摺,只剩九千多元,可見積蓄已快花光,覺得活不下去了,才帶全家自殺。
雲林縣副縣長施克和趕往曾家安慰親友,允諾協助料理後事。經調查曾家並非低收入戶,縣府與公所查閱近兩年來資料,都沒有曾家提出申請低收入戶的紀錄。
「就是不求外援,才會逼到全家走上絕路!」曾家親友說,曾建福的父親曾天賜早年是建築商,因生意失敗,賣掉僅有的一棟房子還債,一家生活就愈來愈苦,「可能以前生活還不錯,所以再苦都忍著」。
這些年來,曾家靠曾天賜、小兒子曾建隆每月領的中重度殘障津貼九千四百元,加上曾建福三萬多元月薪過活,光房租就八千元,且全家都生病,生活拮据。警方從曾建福存摺發現,這一年多來只出不進,顯然他辭職後,除了父親與弟弟的殘障津貼,就靠積蓄度日。
「阿福仔很孝順,又照顧弟弟,是個好孩子,為了維持家計,至今都沒能成家」,曾建福的阿姨說,阿福什麼事都攬著做,一年多前才會搞壞身體,和母親一樣患了「頭風」,「頭痛起來,用手重捶也好不了」,勸他就醫,還怕花錢。
「上個月阿福仔來訪,還有說有笑,看不出異狀」,阿姨說,阿福一家人感情很好,也因為阿福待人好,鄰居與同事都很照顧他們,只是沒想到還是發生憾事。
曾建福之前在福懋公司上班,同事誇他工作認真,被升為領班,他為多賺一點錢,主動做夜班當「夜長工」,可能長期日夜顛倒,常說會頭痛,大家勸他別這麼拚,直到一年多前稱病辭職;公司曾要他回來上班,但可能病得嚴重,他拒絕了。
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2013年1月6日 星期日
特別的婚禮/真愛無懼_聯合報╱諾艾兒(桃園中壢)
我身邊有很多好朋友,要結婚時總會找我幫忙,而和我交情近十年的其中一對,在上星期完成了甜蜜的婚禮。跟我之前所主持過的婚禮一樣,當天賓客盡興,大家臉上都掛著幸福且滿足的笑容;唯一的不同就是,新人其實是兩位可愛的男生。
第一次見到Richie的時候,就覺得他有種很神秘的感覺,他皮膚白皙,心思細膩,是個不可多得的新好男人樣!但他身邊總是沒見到好女孩,幾次說要幫他介紹女朋友,他都說不要。剛開始我以為他害羞,還一直鼓勵他要勇敢追求真愛,後來我便沒再提要介紹女朋友的事了。
Zach則是很有男子氣概,我小時候就認識他,覺得他好有肩膀哦!我甚至還偷偷許下願望,以後一定要嫁給他!因為我們小時候住在同一個社區,上下課都會在一起。他小時候也交過女朋友,那時我還很傷心怎麼不是我。長大離開家念大學,我在北部,他在南部,雖然這樣,我們的感情還是很好。Zach總說跟女朋友好像都沒有fu,有一陣子他心情不好,隱約猜測他應該是跟女朋友出了點狀況,我便約他來台北玩玩。我揪了Richie跟其他友人一起接風,吃飯的過程很愉快,大家聊得很盡興,那是我第一次看到Zach嬌羞的一面。果然隔沒幾天,Zach就說他跟Richie交往了!
當然我是被嚇傻的,Zach說看到Richie就有種想要好好照顧他下輩子的感覺。Richie也坦白跟我說,他從以前就不喜歡女生,對男生總有莫名的好感,卻一直覺得自己是不是生病了,直到遇見之前的一位好友Wayne,才勇敢向爸媽表明自己是同性戀。
至於Zach也在交往後隔沒幾天,向全部好朋友出櫃,雖然大家很震驚,但都很開心知道他終於找到自己的伴侶了。
當然一開始Zach的父母親都不敢相信自己唯一的兒子是同志,後來我跟他們聊聊,他們也漸漸接受了這件事情,對於Richie的好感正在增加中。
這次的婚禮,到場的很多賓客都是同性戀者,他們的臉上洋溢著幸福,我看了很感動。身為他們的好朋友,我真的很開心他們找到真愛。
2012年11月17日 星期六
只想再次與你相遇 文/楊雅雯圖/吳怡欣聯合報繽紛版20121117
當你對人生感到困惑,或者難忍低潮時,有沒有那麼一秒鐘,你衝動地只想見初戀情人一面?
情場生變遭逢挫折 渴望再見初戀情人
你是否會在臉書上搜尋他(或她)的身影,只要他沒有限制臉書閱讀對象,那麼容易、那麼不動聲色,你就有機會潛入他的生活,重新認識現在的他,了解他離開你之後的點滴。可是,幾年前,世界上根本就沒有臉書這東西,想念初戀的渴望必須身體力行才能被滿足,你必須再次走向他,親自去見他。
日劇《Stand up》是2003年的一部舊作,當然,那是個沒有臉書的年代。故事的開端是一個叫千繪(鈴木杏飾)的十七歲女孩回到小時候長大的商店街,她其實剛剛遭受男友的約會強暴,對原本應該燦爛的青春感到無限絕望,她不知生命該何去何從,她不知這世界是否還有人可以相信,她突然想起小時把她捧在手心呵護的四個男孩。於是,沒有告訴家人,沒有對任何人說明原因,她獨自一人回到這條商店街,裝得若無其事,裝得瀟灑自在,她只想看看,曾經純真的愛是否還在。
現在回想起來,朋友娟也曾經做過一樣的事情。那年即將與娟步入禮堂的未婚夫劈腿,娟沒有大罵,沒有歇斯底里,只是坐上隔日飛往倫敦的飛機,大夥以為她想獨自出國散心,殊不知,娟初戀的他正在那裡工作。
或許不了解娟的朋友會認為,她一時感情受挫,只是想立即躲入另一個避風港,任性地想投入另一個懷抱得到慰藉。但,我想的卻完全不同:落在生命的低谷,誰想讓故人看到自身狼狽,而且若對方正意氣風發,相見可能也是難堪。
娟雖衝動,但不是沒考慮過如此後果,她在飛機上借酒壯膽,也想過是不是一到機場就回頭?左思右想無法思量周全,只知自己想再見他一次,彷彿只要再次與他相遇,自己破碎的情感和自尊就能片片修補起來。
只為追尋愛的真諦 歡笑沮喪不顧一切
所以,千繪是鼓起多大勇氣才能再次回到這四個男孩身邊啊!正平、健吾、功司與隼人這四個男孩分別由二宮和也、山下智久、小栗旬與成宮寬貴飾演;正平是個文靜內向、體貼朋友的男孩;山下由經營賓館的單親媽媽一手帶大,看似活潑卻對愛情意外保守;小栗旬明明是個帥氣的足球隊隊長,遇到女孩卻總不知所措;成宮玩樂團愛耍帥,卻老被小太妹霸凌。
這四個個性完全不同的死黨從小在樸實的商店街一起長大,千繪原本也成長在此,六歲時因為父親工作舉家搬遷,可是她自己也不知為什麼,被男友背叛的這個時刻只想重新回到這裡。 《Stand up》刻意用詼諧的手法講述這五個十一年不見的青梅竹馬重新擦出的火花,他們不過十七歲,對生命與愛情都還懵懵懂懂,於是故事就隨著他們追尋愛的真諦的過程展開,其間有歡笑、沮喪和不顧一切的瘋狂……
而我朋友娟下飛機的當晚,就與初戀的他約在飯店大廳,他們趕上最後一齣《歌劇魅影》,在酒吧聊起他異國的工作,喧譁的人聲讓一切顯得不真實。但他的笑容和當年一樣真切,不用開口他就懂得在她咖啡裡放入兩顆方糖,他知道她喜歡角落的座位,倫敦或許陌生,但更多的從前卻那樣熟悉。
他們倆默默地走在深黑的街道上,四周無言,只有壯麗的建築與她高跟鞋敲在石板路上的節奏,她握緊他的手,那初戀時的溫度。
倫敦的夜是鬼魅的,他唐突地停下了腳步,高跟鞋的節奏被打斷,夜也更深了。他說,他結婚了。即使是個意外的答案,娟居然也覺得,他的坦白也那般熟悉那般溫暖。
娟對他微微笑了笑,牽起他的手輕輕一吻。只想再次與你相遇,只要這樣就夠了。娟轉身走入深黑的街道,或許有些寂寞,或許有些傷感,但,只想再次與你相遇,再次確認曾經熟悉的純真。
娟說,她從沒後悔過那不顧一切瘋狂的夜晚,因為那個夜晚,她重新愛過了
2012年10月23日 星期二
2012年9月9日 星期日
不要嫌禮物不佳_聯合報╱米洛2012/09/08
天倫之愛/不要嫌禮物不佳
不過,年近半百的老姊也有罩不住的時候,就是當她回到了七十歲老媽家,還是常常有機會聆聽「老媽媽經」的:「別太晚睡覺啊!」、「工作忙,也別忘了按時吃飯喔!」、「要常跟兒女聊天,他們沒多久都會離開家,別跟孩子生疏了!」、「記得開刀後要多休息,別讓老媽媽擔心啦!」
老姊大概覺得老媽的嘮叨很不給她面子,常常回以「好啦好啦,我知道了啦!」明顯地只想敷衍過去,然後轉變話題,虛應一番了事。
每次看到這種場面,都讓我覺得好笑,因為就跟老姊兒女回答她嘮叨的反應一樣。而看在雙親都已過世的姊夫眼裡卻很感傷,畢竟他的父母都不在了,還有誰會嘮叨關心他呢?
因此這幾年,姊夫比老姊更常到家裡和老爸老媽聊天;當年叫不太出口的岳家「爸媽」,現在是一聲聲喊;連老爸老媽住院時,他也都是跑在老哥之前去探病。
而爸媽也像對親生兒子般對他噓寒問暖,老媽常笑稱萬一女兒女婿吵架的話,她恐怕會「胳臂往外彎」,女兒可以不要,這個女婿可是要維護到底。
姊夫常勸老姊:「別嫌棄這些嘮叨啊!現在我想聽自己爸媽的嘮叨都不可能了。這些嘮叨正代表著關心和感情,是很珍貴的禮物,妳看過有人會嫌禮物不好的嗎?」
失去之後才懂得珍惜,姊夫的感嘆來自心底的遺憾!當初他以為還有機會孝敬老人家,沒想到一場車禍以及凶惡的癌症分別奪走了他的父母,所以遇到不管誰因關心而給的「嘮叨」,姊夫總是笑著收下這樣的「禮物」。畢竟正如他所說的,誰會嫌禮物不好呢?
FROM:http://www.udn.com/2012/9/8/NEWS/LIFE/X1/7348895.shtml
2012年8月15日 星期三
納健保 陸生亦人子也 _台大法律系教授姜皇池/聯合報
報載民進黨立委吳秉叡打算提案修法,讓在台居留六個月以上陸生納入健保體系。然此舉引發民進黨內正反論戰,綠營內反對聲浪不小,有支持者要吳秉叡趕快澄清,否則「人民準備罷免你」。個人實無法理解,究係有何種強烈理由不願將來台陸生納入健保範圍?
猶記得上世紀九○年初個人留學英國,註冊之際,學校行政人員即一再叮囑,英國採行「國家健保制度」(national health service;NHS),凡合法居住英國之人,不論是英國人或外國人,皆享有免費國家看診服務(但藥費要自行負擔),要個人儘速前往宿舍附近健保診所登錄。當時我國尚未有國民健保制度,個人對此驚訝不已,而作為留學生立即聯想到:我國為何無此制度?連對外國人都如此呵護,難怪人家英國是「先進國家」。
很幸運地,隨著台灣經濟發展與思維變更,台灣亦建立起相對更為完整的全民健保制度,雖無庸否認,同樣隨時間之經過,專家告訴我們,如今台灣健保制度已是千瘡百孔,有日薄西山之危。然以常識判斷,大部分留學生率為年輕族群,使用健保資源機率相當偏低,吾人相信,將為數有限的來台陸生納入健保,對健保資源之負擔,應是微乎其微。
當然眾多國人對中國處處打壓我國,且台灣人民在中國所受之人權保障仍有諸多不足,台灣學生在中國並未享有特別優惠等等,基於此種政治感情,對給予陸生健保利益,仍有疑慮。然而中國處處打壓我國,實無庸罪及陸生,事實上此完全是中國政府既定政策,其與陸生何干?且從務實面觀察,正要讓陸生知悉我國處境與基本人道精神,讓陸生未來更能珍惜台灣。至於台灣人在中國人權保障存有重大改進空間,此同樣與陸生何干?此部分應該是我們該自行努力,在往後相關協商談判中,努力爭取者,陸生何罪之有?
退一萬步言,國人或許質疑,為何要以我國民所繳納費用來支付陸生醫療?此不符合公平原則。若真有此顧慮,則不妨於註冊時間,即可要求陸生加入我國健保體系之同時,亦應與一般國民相同,繳交一定比率之健保費用,給予陸生此種國民待遇,即可免除國人對免費使用健保之疑慮,亦可符合公平正義觀感。
事實上,台灣高度重視人權,擁有濃厚人道精神,正是今日少數我們仍能引以為傲者。即使我們在經濟無絲毫起色,國力日衰,且外交處處受礙遭辱之際,吾人於面對中國時,仍勇於抬頭挺胸,以作為台灣人為傲,即是因為我們自信在基本人權保障方面優於中國,對生命價值之重視,同樣非中國所能望我項背。若僅因中國政府處處為難台灣,即視所有中國人為敵人,而無可奈何之下,將氣發洩在陸生身上,因而限制其受台灣人民基本健保之庇護,此實無任何正當理由,既非明智之舉,更是自我沉淪。
FROM:http://www.udn.com/2012/8/14/NEWS/OPINION/X1/7293376.shtml
2012年7月16日 星期一
Separate lives_Phill Collins
You called me from the room in your hotel
All full of romance for someone that you met
And telling me how sorry you were, leaving so soon
And that you miss me sometimes when you're alone in your room
Do I feel lonely too?
You have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
We can't go on just holding on to time
Now that we're living separate lives
Well I held on to let you go
And if you lost your love for me, well you never let it show
There was no way to compromise
So now we're living (living)
Separate livesOoh, it's so typical, love leads to isolation
So you build that wall (build that wall)
Yes, you build that wall (build that wall)
And you make it stronger
Well you have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
Some day I might (I might) find myself looking in your eyes
But for now, we'll go on living separate lives
Yes for now, we'll go on living separate lives
Separate lives
From:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_4w3-CPP6E
2012年7月11日 星期三
Can spending less time sitting down add years to life?By Michelle Roberts ,Health editor, BBC News online
Limiting the time we spend sitting to just three hours a day could add an extra two years to our life expectancy, scientists calculate.
The analysis assumes a causal association rather than proving that there is one
Similarly, if we cut daily TV viewing down to two hours we could add on 1.4 years, they say in a report for the online journal BMJ Open. But experts say the US estimates, which are based on five separate population studies, are too unreliable to predict personal risk.
Plus the targets are unfeasible.
Prof David Spiegelhalter, an expert in risk calculations at the University of Cambridge, said: "This is a study of populations, and does not tell you personally what the effect of getting off the sofa might be. "It seems plausible that if future generations moved around a bit more, then they might live longer on average. "But very few of us currently spend less than three hours sitting each day, and so this seems a very optimistic target."
Sitting comfortably?
Adults are advised to do at least two-and-a-half hours of moderate-intensity aerobic activity such as cycling or fast walking every week, as well as a couple of sessions of muscle-strengthening exercises like lifting weights or digging in the garden.
But even if you do this recommended amount, you may still be sedentary - for example, if you work in an office you may spend most of your working day sitting.
A growing body of evidence suggests the more time we spend sitting, the less healthy we may be.Several studies have linked sitting and television viewing to conditions like diabetes and heart disease as well as an increased overall risk of death. But finding a link is not the same as proving one thing actually causes the other. And although this latest piece of research does not claim to be proof, the researchers themselves acknowledge there are flaws that make its findings less than reliable.
The work looked at a large sample of people - almost 167,000 in total - but did not scrutinise the different lifestyles these individuals led.It is not clear how many of these people were less healthy to begin with and who, therefore, might spend more time sitting down as a result. And the studies relied on the participants accurately recalling and reporting how much time they spent lounging around. Dr Peter Katzmarzyk and Prof I-Min Lee who carried out the review stress that their estimates are theoretical.
But given that the adults in their research spent, on average, half of their days sitting "engaged in sedentary pursuits", the findings could provide an important public health warning.
Natasha Stewart, senior cardiac nurse at the British Heart Foundation, said: "This research only suggests a causal association between sedentary behaviour and a shorter life expectancy. It also used American data so we'd need to see more research to understand what it means for the UK population."However, it does highlight what we already know about sedentary behaviour being a risk factor for developing heart disease. And recent UK guidelines suggested we should all minimise the time we spend sitting down.
"We all need to be regularly active to keep our hearts healthy. So whether it's by walking to the local shop rather than driving, or playing sport rather than watching it on TV, there are lots of ways to be more active and improve your health."
From:http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-18767278
The analysis assumes a causal association rather than proving that there is one
Similarly, if we cut daily TV viewing down to two hours we could add on 1.4 years, they say in a report for the online journal BMJ Open. But experts say the US estimates, which are based on five separate population studies, are too unreliable to predict personal risk.
Plus the targets are unfeasible.
Prof David Spiegelhalter, an expert in risk calculations at the University of Cambridge, said: "This is a study of populations, and does not tell you personally what the effect of getting off the sofa might be. "It seems plausible that if future generations moved around a bit more, then they might live longer on average. "But very few of us currently spend less than three hours sitting each day, and so this seems a very optimistic target."
Sitting comfortably?
Adults are advised to do at least two-and-a-half hours of moderate-intensity aerobic activity such as cycling or fast walking every week, as well as a couple of sessions of muscle-strengthening exercises like lifting weights or digging in the garden.
But even if you do this recommended amount, you may still be sedentary - for example, if you work in an office you may spend most of your working day sitting.
A growing body of evidence suggests the more time we spend sitting, the less healthy we may be.Several studies have linked sitting and television viewing to conditions like diabetes and heart disease as well as an increased overall risk of death. But finding a link is not the same as proving one thing actually causes the other. And although this latest piece of research does not claim to be proof, the researchers themselves acknowledge there are flaws that make its findings less than reliable.
The work looked at a large sample of people - almost 167,000 in total - but did not scrutinise the different lifestyles these individuals led.It is not clear how many of these people were less healthy to begin with and who, therefore, might spend more time sitting down as a result. And the studies relied on the participants accurately recalling and reporting how much time they spent lounging around. Dr Peter Katzmarzyk and Prof I-Min Lee who carried out the review stress that their estimates are theoretical.
But given that the adults in their research spent, on average, half of their days sitting "engaged in sedentary pursuits", the findings could provide an important public health warning.
Natasha Stewart, senior cardiac nurse at the British Heart Foundation, said: "This research only suggests a causal association between sedentary behaviour and a shorter life expectancy. It also used American data so we'd need to see more research to understand what it means for the UK population."However, it does highlight what we already know about sedentary behaviour being a risk factor for developing heart disease. And recent UK guidelines suggested we should all minimise the time we spend sitting down.
"We all need to be regularly active to keep our hearts healthy. So whether it's by walking to the local shop rather than driving, or playing sport rather than watching it on TV, there are lots of ways to be more active and improve your health."
From:http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-18767278
2012年7月10日 星期二
Gene flaw 'explains why drugs failed to treat MS'
Scientists have identified why a once-promising class of drugs do not help people with multiple sclerosis.
An Oxford University team say a genetic variant linked to MS means the drugs which work for patients with other autoimmune diseases will not work for them.The team, writing in Nature, say the drugs can actually make symptoms worse.Experts say the work shows how a person's genetic make-up could affect how they responded to treatment.The drugs, called anti-TNFs, work for patients with rheumatoid arthritis and inflammatory bowel disease, but they have not done so for patients with MS and researchers were unsure why.
Mimicking
The Oxford University team looked at one particular genetic variant, found in a gene called TNFRSF1A, which has previously been associated with the risk of developing MS.
The normal, long version of the protein sits on the surface of cells and binds the TNF signalling molecule, which is important for a number of processes in the body.But the team discovered the variant caused the production of an altered, shortened version which "mops up" TNF, preventing it from triggering signals - essentially the same thing that TNF blocking drugs do.
This explains why a study 10 years ago found the drugs make MS patients significantly worse and exacerbate the disease, the researchers suggest.
Professor Lars Fugger of the Nuffield Department of Clinical Neurosciences, who led the work, said: "The hope has been that analyses of the whole human genome would lead to findings that are clinically relevant.
"We show that this is possible. It's one of the first such examples, certainly in autoimmune disease."
He added: 'Whilst the TNFRSF1A gene variant is linked to a modest risk of developing MS, the drug that mimics the effect of the variant has a considerably greater impact.
"The effects of genetic variants influencing disease risk or resistance can be amplified by drugs. This has often been completely overlooked, but will be critical for using genetic findings in a medical context."
Nick Rijke, director of policy and research at the MS Society, said: "There are many genes associated with MS, but we know little about the role they play or the influence they have on the condition.
"This important study has shown that some of your genes can play a part in deciding whether or not you respond to a treatment.
"In the future this could help ensure that people with MS are offered the drug treatments that are most likely to work for them."
FROM:http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-18738785
2012年7月6日 星期五
In The Shadow Of A Badge/A Spiritual Memoir
Lillie's Story: After more than nine years and as a result of her personal experiences at the Flight 93 crash site in Shanksville (PA), Lillie recently completed a 200-page book detailing a deeply spiritual event that took place at the site on 9-11. Entitled In The Shadow Of A Badge
A Spiritual Memoir, the book reflects her story about the visitation of Angels during the first hours at the crash site.
It is a narrative non-fiction, first-hand account of the spiritual experience Lillie encountered while serving in her professional capacity as the Community Affairs Coordinator with the FBI (Pittsburgh Division). What she saw and/or heard is a personal interpretation of the events leading up to and following 9-11 and, in particular, the Flight 93 crash. The book also details her ongoing journey of personal healing and recovery from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) following her experiences that day.
From:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X98TTuIpbbU
2012年6月24日 星期日
記憶藏寶圖/我的爸爸是計程車司機_林沛絨_2012/06/24 聯合報
有位乘客遺失了錢包,司機將它據為己有,從此每到夜晚,就會聽到耳邊傳來「還我錢來,還我錢來」恐怖的聲音……
三十多年前的八德路,復旦橋還沒拆,我常在橋的這端,當時還叫「台灣療養院」的台安醫院門口和同學等公車。有一次,遠遠看到橋上來了一輛救護車,突然鳴聲大作地開下橋,然後一個急轉彎停在我們面前。車上笑容滿面的駕駛先生望著驚慌失措的我們,這時站在隔壁的同學滿臉尷尬地對著我們說:「對不起,嚇到你們了,我爸是救護車司機!」
當上金馬獎司機開名車載大明星
我爸爸則是計程車司機,他也很喜歡用這招。有時是放學後開在路隊旁,或中午吃便當時間停在校園後門的樹蔭下,同學們都知道那是我家的計程車。因為爸爸是計程車司機,所以拾金不昧是他從小就重視的教育,他曾經告訴我們流傳在計程車界的鬼故事:有位乘客遺失了錢包,司機將它據為己有,從此每到夜晚,就會聽到耳邊傳來「還我錢來,還我錢來」恐怖的聲音,原來那筆錢是要用來支付醫院手術的費用,可憐的乘客因為自責而做了傻事。
這個可怕的故事從此深深烙印在我和弟弟幼小的心靈中,走在路上都不敢亂撿東西。不過,有一次,乘客在車上遺留了一件兒童紅色大衣,無人認領,派出所的員警說:「你家裡有小孩,就拿回去穿吧。」我穿上後,喜不自勝,跑去嬸嬸家招搖,嬸嬸問我,我回答:「爸爸車上撿來的。」結果被媽媽打了一頓。唉,老實也有錯!
爸爸因為是優良駕駛,民國68年被新聞局選派為金馬獎接送外賓的司機之一。當時有配發一輛凱迪拉克轎車,因為太珍貴了,停在樓下時,還要分派哥哥和姊姊輪流看守,不讓隔鄰小朋友伸手亂摸。倒是有一天中午,爸爸突然回來了,他要上廁所,告訴我們趕快下樓,車上有貴賓。我們一夥小鬼和左鄰右舍叔叔伯伯統統衝下樓,只看到車上坐了一位豔光四射、美若天仙的外國女子,微笑著和我們揮手。十多年後,我才知道那位貌似希臘女神的美女是伊麗莎白泰勒。現在想想,那時候做計程車司機真的很單純,爸爸也從來不會跟我們抱怨做這行的苦。他以前是新竹橫山鄉的礦工,來到台北打天下,太太在工廠上班,又要照顧到四個小孩,計程車司機是最有彈性的工作了。
三餐不定常憋尿司機身體亮紅燈
爸爸的偶像是柯俊雄,有一次我們擠在「三合院」(臥室、餐廳和客廳)看電視重播《再見阿郎》,看到阿郎開運豬車半夜在省道飆車,超過一台車,就有白花花的鈔票可拿,然後「砰」一聲出了車禍,鏡頭馬上轉到穿著樂隊制服的張美瑤在排演儀隊……我們小孩子還搞不清楚發生什麼事時,突然聽到後方傳來啜泣的聲音,轉過頭去竟然看到爸爸在流眼淚。媽媽很無奈地對我們說:「爸爸以前追媽媽時去電影院看《再見阿郎》,當時就哭了,沒想到現在孩子都四個了,還是哭得嗚嗚叫。」
爸爸最有印象的歌星是倪賓,因為那時他剛開計程車,倪先生是第一個給他小費的人。有一次中午時間爸爸突然回來,我們驚喜地問他為什麼可以回家?他說:「今天是布袋戲最後一集,路上都沒人叫車耶!」長大後我常想,其實爸爸不是真的愛看布袋戲,他只是想和我們在一起;也許這樣可以讓他忘記生活上的壓力和不如意。
爸爸因為開計程車三餐不定時,又常常憋尿,雖然退休了,但身體狀況一直不好,而我也因結婚生子無法常常陪伴他。有次住家附近開了一間復健醫院,因為是新開幕,有做免費的腹部超音波檢查,想帶爸爸做檢查。他對我說:「北投好遠,妳開車還要找停車位,不如坐捷運去吧!」
我們約在古亭站2號出口,我帶著爸爸買票、刷卡,一路上爸爸都沉默不語,只是很專心地注意著各項設施、廣播;連到醫院做檢查時,面對醫生詢問,也是心不在焉。我有點生氣,回程坐捷運到古亭站時,爸爸告訴我,其實他才不想做什麼超音波,他只是想坐坐看捷運,又不想麻煩到家人,這天總算可以進去捷運站了。
他要我趕快回家,小孩子幼稚園快下課了!然後在我眼淚還沒流下前,自顧自地走出捷運站。我的爸爸,開了二十多年的計程車,載著我們遊山玩水,趕上課,趕聯考,趕任何重要的約會,而我們竟然沒有想到要陪爸爸坐捷運。
爸爸去世已經四年了,他曾經對我說:「妹仔,長大了千萬不要嫁給計程車司機啊!妳看,含都路(方向盤)圓圓,怎麼轉都轉不出去。」爸爸轉著方向盤感嘆著對我說。
現在計程車業進步許多,有公會的支持、政府的補助,但我覺得缺少的是一份尊重,「十年修得同船渡」,當您坐上車時,司機先生就是您的渡船人,一個微笑,一份關懷,一個該有的尊重,我想司機先生一定會更用心為您服務的。
FROM:聯合新聞網 http://udn.com/NEWS/READING/X4/7179502.shtml#ixzz1yfCCrfVF
2012年6月21日 星期四
To remember with gratitude my auntie Sr. Bai (Wendy)! Writer by Wang Lih Yih_20120621
Thank you God for letting me meet an Angel from you who came from Germany!
Thank you God! Sr. Wendy and I all come from the Northern Hemisphere, but we all met each other in the Southern Hemisphere- Australia!
Thank you God, for Sr. Wendy’s great love, care and help!
Thank you God! Lih-Yih will always hold your great care in his heart forever!
Thank you God! Lih-Yih will praise you until my death!
Thank you God! You took Sr. Wendy to the Heaven with you!
Sr. Wendy told me all the words!
Sr. Wendy gave me all the instructions!
Sr. Wendy gave me all the attention!
Sr. Wendy gave me all the care!
Sr. Wendy left me all good memories!
Her death made me feel terribly sad, miserable, regretful, heartbroken but happy to see her go to Heaven with God!
Goodbye! My auntie, Sr. Wendy, you have all my respect. I venerate you.
Thank you God!
Thank you God!
Thank you for allowing me to meet my auntie Sr. Wendy!
21 of June 2012 written in I-Lan Taiwan
20120621於台灣宜蘭
2012年6月17日 星期日
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